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[nohanii]

This is getting ridiculous. Persilla Queen of the Desert (aka Pauline) has decided that it is quite all right to lock me out of the room any time she chooses so that she can have sex. This has happened at least five times in the last week.

On Sunday, I got up somewhat early (8-9 am) and went into the living room so I wouldn't bother her or her boyfriend who were still asleep in the bedroom. They woke up soon after that and locked the door and started having sex while I was in the living room. I wasn't even dressed for the day yet. I had to go knock on the door to be allowed into my own room so I could get my clothes and leave. Well, I left the door open because I would be going in and out for a bit while getting prepared for the day. I walked in through the OPEN bedroom door and walked right in on her going down on him. Fortunately, the blanket was strategically placed so I didn't see much of him, but I got an eyeful of her fat ass. Seriously?? The door was OPEN, dipshit!

After coming home from the gym today, the bedroom door was wide open. Turns out, they were napping. Fine, whatever. But now, I'm locked out of my room AGAIN while they have sex AGAIN. Once or twice is fine. But nearly every day? Enough is enough. I get that this is a relatively new relationship, but still. Some basic courtesy would be appreciated: a) don't lock me out of the room that we share while I'm home, b) don't have sex on my furniture (which I know they've done at least 2 or 3 times), and c) don't have sex while I'm home!! My sex life has suffered because I follow all three of this guidelines. I hate that it has, but I value some semblance of peace in the apartment. I really want to start violating all of these "guidelines" all the time, just to show her how rude it is.

What would you do if you were in the same situation, flist?

Comments

[sensorium.livejournal.com]

Oh dear D: D: D: Why doesn't she just do it at his place???

[honeystix.livejournal.com]

I DON'T KNOW. I feel like they're always here, and never over at his place. His place can't be any worse than here -- here a single bedroom is shared amongst 3 roommates plus boyfriends. There's almost always at least two people here when she does this, too.

[sunsetsinthewes.livejournal.com]

Starr and Kelly and I just had this "Not where I can seen it and not on on my stuff". Hearing it was usually unavoidable, but actually asking that anyone to not have sex at all was kind of an extreme for us.

[ahava-sarai.livejournal.com]

I dealt with a bit of this crap when I was in a dorm setting which made it a little easier because we just went to the RA's and they handled it for us.

Have you talked to her? I think you have every right to say something since you're paying a part of the rent!

[honeystix.livejournal.com]

I would do that, too, but we share a room. If she had her own room, it wouldn't be a problem. I'm not asking her to not have sex, just to not have sex on my furniture or to lock me out of the room that we share.

[honeystix.livejournal.com]

The leasing office here knows the crap that she pulls, but they can't/won't do anything about it.

This girl is hard to talk to. I approached her the other day because she shorted me by $10 on rent/utilities, and I still haven't seen that money. She's all about herself and she won't do anything to help me out in any way.